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  2. <?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/atom10full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6180332730366085395</id><updated>2017-09-07T15:54:40.970-07:00</updated><category term="love" /><category term="relationships" /><category term="cheater" /><category term="dating" /><category term="happiness" /><category term="intense" /><category term="mate" /><category term="men" /><category term="trust" /><category term="women" /><category term="Dating women" /><category term="Giys dating" /><category term="Like" /><category term="connection" /><category term="females. males" /><category term="guys" /><category term="marriage" /><category term="online" /><category term="online dating" /><category term="relationship" /><category term="successful" /><category term="wuss" /><title type="text">Dating tips &amp; Info</title><subtitle type="html">It is all about Dating on or off line. Tips &amp;amp; strategies that will solve a few of those relationship mysteries~</subtitle><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/" /><author><name>Dorothy L says hi</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/111639408238971330640</uri><email>[email protected]</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="32" src="//lh5.googleusercontent.com/--MhsKibp8sc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/MZI4ScmC5Dw/s512-c/photo.jpg" /></author><generator version="7.00" uri="http://www.blogger.com">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><blogger:adultContent>true</blogger:adultContent><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/DatingOnline" /><feedburner:info uri="datingonline" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6180332730366085395.post-1195519854443104354</id><published>2012-04-13T14:25:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2013-02-27T14:55:38.412-08:00</updated><title type="text">Women...The Guy Magnet</title><content type="html">&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Do you believe men are complicated? Do you find them to be confusing and frustrating at the same time? Do you ever wish that you had a secret window which could help you look inside a man’s mind and figure out what he is thinking?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Isn’t it truly frustrating…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;When a man never calls you back after a great first date when he promised he would? And you desperately wait for that one special phone call which never comes?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;When he says he likes you but at the same time takes you for granted? And you hate it when it keeps happening over and over again?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;When he shows loads of interest in you but then withdraws completely for no reason? And you don’t even know why?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Isn’t it absolutely crazy when men say things they don’t mean…Make promises they don’t keep and leave you hanging in the middle?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;And the ugly part is…When this happens men usually never have a good enough explanation.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;And this is where you always wonder – WHAT’S ON HIS MIND? WHAT IS HE THINKING? WHAT DOES HE WANT? WHY ISN’T HE EVER HONEST?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Why can’t he just be a bit more considerate towards my feelings and let me know what he is thinking in regards to me?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;I know…I know…It kind of leaves you hopeless and you start to feel that there is something seriously wrong with most men out there.&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;But let me give you some truth on this matter…When a man says one thing but ends up doing the exact opposite of it…He has his reasons…And in order to understand all that I am going to show you how to read his mind.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;I am sure you are probably thinking – Can it really be that easy to read his mind and figure out exactly what he is thinking? Well yes it is…And if you truly want to master this art…I expect your complete attention. Stop whatever else you are doing at the moment and pay full attention to this report. (And no skipping any parts…)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;So do I have your attention now? YES? Good…Let’s get started…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;The Truth Sits In What He Does…&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;Not What He Says…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;If you really want to know what is going on in a man’s mind all you have to do is to focus on his actions and completely ignore his words. Let me illustrate with some examples –&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Let’s say you went out on a date &amp;amp; the guy promised to call you back but never did….&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;What could it possibly mean…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Maybe he lost your phone number.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Maybe he is busy.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Maybe he is nervous about it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;I am sure you can come up with more maybes but if you were to study his action…There is one thing which is screaming out loud and that is this –&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;HE DOESN’T LIKE YOU ENOUGH…PERIOD!&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;If he did…He would call you…What’s on his mind will reflect in his actions.&amp;nbsp;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;You aren’t on his mind and you aren’t on the top of his list of priorities.&amp;nbsp; I know it sounds harsh but it’s the truth. A man can never be busy enough to forget to call a girl he likes…In fact! If he truly liked you…he would put you above everything else going on in his life and will call you for sure.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Now let’s take another example – let’s say you are confused about your current relationship and don’t know whether your boyfriend will marry you or not. And whenever you ask him he either completely avoids the question or just changes the topic.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;What’s going on here? You can again sit there and come up with more maybes such as –&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Maybe this isn’t the right time to talk about it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Maybe he is really stressed at work and I should avoid this topic.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Maybe he is waiting for the right time to propose.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Maybe he wants to be financially stable before he commits etc etc.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;But what do his actions say? If you were to purely focus on his actions you’d know that something isn’t right. Since he isn’t ready to discuss it…He is indirectly letting you know that he won’t marry you.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;This doesn’t mean that this same guy won’t be married some day but the harsh truth is that he won’t be married to you. If he truly wanted to marry you, then you won’t even have to do the asking…He will do the asking.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;There is no such thing as the “RIGHT TIME”…It’s all about the “RIGHT WOMAN”. And when a guy has found the woman who triggers all the right buttons in his head…He will do everything necessary to keep her and settle down with her.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;If It Is This Easy To Figure Him Out…&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;Why Do So Many Women Still Struggle?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Very good question…And I’ll give you a very good answer too. It’s because most women make excuses and become blind to the truth.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;I guess you know what I mean…Nothing is more painful than learning that the man you desperately love doesn’t have similar feelings towards you. It’s extremely terrifying and in order to avoid all the hassle and pain. Women do the next best thing…And that is to give their man the benefit of the doubt…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Here are common examples –&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;When a guy isn’t asking you out…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoNormalTable" style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-left: 2.25pt; width: 350px;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr style="height: 21.9pt; mso-yfti-firstrow: yes; mso-yfti-irow: 0;"&gt;   &lt;td style="border-right: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #EB613D; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Possible Excuse Women Use…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="233"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #AECF00; border-left: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;The Real Truth...&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;   &lt;td style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: solid black 1.0pt; border-right: none; border-top: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Oh he is shy, and   waiting for the right moment.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: none; border-right: solid black 1.0pt; border-top: none; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;If he liked you enough he’d know how to ask you.&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;When a guy keeps you waiting on the phone...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;or won’t return your phone calls…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoNormalTable" style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-left: 2.25pt; width: 350px;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr style="height: 21.9pt; mso-yfti-firstrow: yes; mso-yfti-irow: 0;"&gt;   &lt;td style="border-right: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #EB613D; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Possible Excuse Women Use…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #AECF00; border-left: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;The Real Truth...&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;   &lt;td style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: solid black 1.0pt; border-right: none; border-top: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;He must be busy with   other more important things.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: none; border-right: solid black 1.0pt; border-top: none; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;He is giving other things more priority since you aren’t that   important to him.&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;When a guy always says hurtful things….&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoNormalTable" style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-left: 2.25pt; width: 350px;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr style="height: 21.9pt; mso-yfti-firstrow: yes; mso-yfti-irow: 0;"&gt;   &lt;td style="border-right: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #EB613D; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Possible Excuse Women Use…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #AECF00; border-left: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;The Real Truth...&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;   &lt;td style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: solid black 1.0pt; border-right: none; border-top: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;He must have been   angry I know he doesn’t mean it.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: none; border-right: solid black 1.0pt; border-top: none; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;He isn’t concerned about your feelings and is inconsiderate.   If he was, he would never say or do anything which hurts you.&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;When you aren’t sure if he likes you or not…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Standard"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoNormalTable" style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-left: 2.25pt; width: 350px;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr style="height: 21.9pt; mso-yfti-firstrow: yes; mso-yfti-irow: 0;"&gt;   &lt;td style="border-right: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #EB613D; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Possible Excuse Women Use…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #AECF00; border-left: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;The Real Truth...&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;   &lt;td style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: solid black 1.0pt; border-right: none; border-top: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Maybe he likes me but is too shy to say it to me.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: none; border-right: solid black 1.0pt; border-top: none; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;A guy won’t keep you guessing if he really likes you, in fact   he would be afraid that some other guy might take you away from him and will   do everything in his power to let you know that he likes you either by words   or by his actions around you.&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;When a guy has regular sex with you&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;but..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;he won’t really take you out or talk on the phone…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoNormalTable" style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-left: 2.25pt; width: 350px;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr style="height: 21.9pt; mso-yfti-firstrow: yes; mso-yfti-irow: 0;"&gt;   &lt;td style="border-right: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #EB613D; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Possible Excuse Women Use…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #AECF00; border-left: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;The Real Truth...&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;   &lt;td style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: solid black 1.0pt; border-right: none; border-top: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;I like what we have currently and I don’t want to ruin things.   I’ll wait for him to get more serious.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: none; border-right: solid black 1.0pt; border-top: none; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;You are his sex toy, nothing more and nothing less. If he only   wishes to see you when he is in the mood for sex then that alone tells you a   great deal about what he wants&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;from you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;When he is in a relationship with you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;but..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;also flirts with other girls…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoNormalTable" style="border-collapse: collapse; margin-left: 2.25pt; width: 350px;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr style="height: 21.9pt; mso-yfti-firstrow: yes; mso-yfti-irow: 0;"&gt;   &lt;td style="border-right: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #EB613D; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Possible Excuse Women Use…&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border: solid black 1.0pt; height: 21.9pt; mso-border-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="background: #AECF00; border-left: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; padding-bottom: 0cm; padding-left: 0cm; padding-right: 0cm; padding-top: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; color: white; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;The Real Truth...&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;   &lt;td style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: solid black 1.0pt; border-right: none; border-top: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 248.55pt;" valign="top" width="331"&gt;&lt;div style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Oh! He’s always been the flirty kind and I know he only does   it occasionally for fun. Not something I should worry about.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="border-top: none; border: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid black .25pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black .25pt; padding: 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt 2.75pt; width: 250.05pt;" valign="top" width="333"&gt;&lt;div style="border-bottom: solid black 1.0pt; border-left: none; border-right: solid black 1.0pt; border-top: none; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm;"&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="TableContents" style="border: none; margin-bottom: 14.15pt; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-border-right-alt: solid black 1.0pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 0cm; padding: 0cm; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;If he is flirting, it means he is keeping his options open.   Which means that he isn’t exclusive to you, which also means that some day in   the near future something will happen which won’t please you, which means you   better be prepared for it right away. Accept it now or be prepared for   something shocking in the near future.&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;It’s insane the lengths women go to when they are excited about some guy and really like him. They try to make sense of the most senseless situation and try to come up with really odd excuses to turn an unsatisfying situation into a satisfactory one.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;Always remember that his actions speak louder than words. What he does is what he is thinking. And what he says might not be the truth…Make it a habit to always focus on his actions.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #47b8b8; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 16pt;"&gt;What You Must Remember...&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Men are not as complicated as most women think. They are very simple and straightforward. The story going on in their mind will always reflect in their actions. So study the actions and ignore the words. You will never face confusion that way.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Never get tricked with his words, a man could say a thousand things to you and not mean any of it. You should only believe his words when they are followed with suitable action.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- If he makes a commitment and never follows through, then you must know right there that something&amp;nbsp;isn't&amp;nbsp;right.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Always judge a man’s character based on how often he follows through with his commitments. A man with a solid character will always do what he says he is going to do. His words and his actions will be in perfect harmony.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;- Never give a man the benefit of the doubt more than once. If he failed you once, he is very likely to do it over and over again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="color: #999999; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="Textbody"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2TEZYFYCzE0/T4iNO91O8rI/AAAAAAAAAtw/UZPNNT-TTZ4/s1600/theguymagnetselfesteem.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="39" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2TEZYFYCzE0/T4iNO91O8rI/AAAAAAAAAtw/UZPNNT-TTZ4/s320/theguymagnetselfesteem.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center" class="Textbody" style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;b style="background-color: #fcffe8; color: #222222; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 16px; text-align: start;"&gt;63PYEYTDNZVE&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DatingOnline/~4/AeVnHgR0e_k" height="1" width="1" alt=""/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/feeds/1195519854443104354/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/2012/04/womenthe-guy-magnet.html#comment-form" title="4 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6180332730366085395/posts/default/1195519854443104354" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6180332730366085395/posts/default/1195519854443104354" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DatingOnline/~3/AeVnHgR0e_k/womenthe-guy-magnet.html" title="Women...The Guy Magnet" /><author><name>Dorothy L says hi</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/111639408238971330640</uri><email>[email protected]</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="32" src="//lh5.googleusercontent.com/--MhsKibp8sc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/MZI4ScmC5Dw/s512-c/photo.jpg" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2TEZYFYCzE0/T4iNO91O8rI/AAAAAAAAAtw/UZPNNT-TTZ4/s72-c/theguymagnetselfesteem.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>4</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://findyourman.blogspot.com/2012/04/womenthe-guy-magnet.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6180332730366085395.post-4429100501346308562</id><published>2012-02-07T23:12:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-10-20T13:25:14.391-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="cheater" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="intense" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="mate" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="men" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="relationships" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="trust" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="women" /><title type="text">Love means....</title><content type="html">&lt;div style="margin: 0px; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-CzAtUkcMDK0/TzIg2cJ3aII/AAAAAAAAAtU/zSqtVL2OZQk/s1600/lovemeans.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="232" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-CzAtUkcMDK0/TzIg2cJ3aII/AAAAAAAAAtU/zSqtVL2OZQk/s320/lovemeans.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you feel your brains turn to mush as soon as cupids arrow spears your heart?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did your heart ever become your goal?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did he become your world?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you feel the need to control him?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you want to be his everything?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did you ever change your entire world to be with him?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did he, for you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you want his eyes to be only on you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you feel like you can never say anything right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you try to share your thoughts with him, only to alienate him?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you tear your hair out every time he looks at you like you are an alien?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you wish today was as sweet as the first day that you laid your eyes on him?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you wish you had never heard any stories about his past?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you wish he never heard yours?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you expect him to read your mind?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you think you can read his mind?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you worry about things that he cannot even comprehend?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you imagine his answers, when he gives you none?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you constantly question his feelings for you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you question his every decision?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you feel like a wallflower?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you wish he would not interpret your needs for weakness?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did you grow up believing love would be safe and non confronting?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you like the feeling of mistrust?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Does he?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you feel that you are the only one in this relationship?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did you ever think that you would feel so torn apart when you argued with someone?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did you think that you could be so hateful with someone you love so much?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did you ever look just at someone and just feel total unconditional love for them?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Did you think that he too would feel incompetent during sex?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you know that he too suffers when you look upon him with disappointment?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Does he try to reach out to you in his time of need for affection and understanding?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you turn away from him, hoping that he will turn to you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you feel like hiding from his eyes when you feel threatened by another female?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Does he understand&amp;nbsp;you at that time?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Does he support you when you feel weak and failing?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you support him?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you allow him inside your head when all you want to do is die?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you come home and ask him how his day was?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you reach for him in the quiet of the night?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Does he reach out for you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Does he make you feel sexy with just one look?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you crave his touch?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Does he kiss you passionately?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you kiss him back?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Do you love him with all your heart and soul?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Would you die for him?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Would he die for you?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;HMMMMMM!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;I know&amp;nbsp;that I have definitely reached each one of you reading, with at least one of these thought provoking questions. Did you ever think such a small sweet word like LOVE could be so full of emotions and feelings? Love has so many meanings:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means trust, even when all the cards are against you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means understand at all costs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means accept all without question.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means allowing a stranger into your heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means smiling when anyone else would frown.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means hugging when he cries.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means being silent when silence is needed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means putting his feelings first.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means being fair.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means expecting fairness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means commitment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means fitting together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means laughter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means partnership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means being independent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means forgiveness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means patience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means pain.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means sacrifice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means supporting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means feeling complete.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means never going to bed mad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Love means GIFT.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;If you have the gift of love, cherish it, nurture it, and treat it with respect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;Never push it away, or hurt it. Never, ever abuse it, or treat it like a door mat. Embrace it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;To have the gift of love is truly an inner beauty feeling. People say they love, but truly they have no clue what love is. Love can be just as painful as it can be beautiful. It can turn on you in a heartbeat. It can become your worst enemy. It can twist your world and turn it upside down, leaving you feeling alone and empty. Love is a very powerful gift. It is when one finds true love that all of the feelings, good and bad come together.&amp;nbsp;That is when they are organized and compromised to make two people into one.&amp;nbsp;It is when we are one that we join forces against the world and battle together. Sometimes it feels easier to go it alone, but it is the word, "alone" that really scares me. I would rather risk it all with someone,&amp;nbsp;then to be alone.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;To answer yes to any of the questions above....is to say that you have taken the risk and you have loved~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: monospace; white-space: pre-wrap;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: monospace; white-space: pre-wrap;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: monospace; white-space: pre-wrap;"&gt;~D~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 0px; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: white;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DatingOnline/~4/L06wbYGR934" height="1" width="1" alt=""/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/feeds/4429100501346308562/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/2012/02/love-means.html#comment-form" title="1 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6180332730366085395/posts/default/4429100501346308562" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6180332730366085395/posts/default/4429100501346308562" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DatingOnline/~3/L06wbYGR934/love-means.html" title="Love means...." /><author><name>Dorothy L says hi</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/111639408238971330640</uri><email>[email protected]</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="32" src="//lh5.googleusercontent.com/--MhsKibp8sc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/MZI4ScmC5Dw/s512-c/photo.jpg" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-CzAtUkcMDK0/TzIg2cJ3aII/AAAAAAAAAtU/zSqtVL2OZQk/s72-c/lovemeans.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://findyourman.blogspot.com/2012/02/love-means.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6180332730366085395.post-2436106373716255641</id><published>2009-09-03T14:25:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-10-28T16:47:29.280-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="dating" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Dating women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="females. males" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Giys dating" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Like" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="love" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wuss" /><title type="text">Dating Tips for the Guys</title><content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-2860931-10745531" target="_top"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img alt="FREE Dating Tips &amp;amp; Advice For Men" border="0" height="60" src="http://www.lduhtrp.net/image-2860931-10745531" width="234" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ONfHzbrIcQo/SqA4fA_pXbI/AAAAAAAAAi4/69cuevhtgMA/s1600-h/blackkiss.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5377360060574424498" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ONfHzbrIcQo/SqA4fA_pXbI/AAAAAAAAAi4/69cuevhtgMA/s400/blackkiss.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 302px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 250px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;~How to act when a Woman Likes You~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;QUESTION FROM A READER......&lt;br /&gt;I've become a very generous guy lately. To all my male friends,I'm giving them the gift of your newsletter. To all my females, I'm giving the gift of missing me.&lt;br /&gt;I'm a recovering wuss. I took a few months off of women and worked on my inner game, with great results. I've started talking to new women again, along with old girlfriends. I find that when the c/f (Cocky &amp;amp; Funny) starts rolling, or even just my new found confidence, I often get a lot of compliments. What's the best way to deal with a girl coming out and saying “oh, you're so cute/funny/etc...”? Should I ignore it and keep the c/f going? Should I address it in a cocky way? I'm assuming that graciously accepting the compliment is never the right answer...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What would you say to a girl who compliments you directly? (other than “Do you do third input?”) What would your tone/body language/eye contact be like?&lt;br /&gt;-J.M.&lt;br /&gt;New Hampshire, where men are men, women are few, and sheep are nervous.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;MY COMMENTS:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You know, this really is a great question.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the most important things to understand as a man is what to do when things are WORKING... so you don't SCREW IT UP!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you use the materials that you're learning from me, you will start to have a magical thing happen more and more often... women will start to do and say things that clearly indicate that they LIKE you.&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes it will be a touch, sometimes a compliment, and sometimes a smile. But these things WILL happen more and more as you get better and better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I always laugh to myself when I bust a woman's chops really hard, and she laughs and says “You're so funny!” or “You really are good!” etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I still shake my head and wonder why the hell it took me so long to figure this stuff out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I digress... you know, while I'm digressing, what's with you ending your email with:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“&amp;gt;From New Hampshire, where men are men, women are few, and sheep are nervous.”&lt;br /&gt;...?!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is probably the third or fourth time that I've seen this at the end of an email.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tell me the truth... do chicks dig this?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name='more'&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You're making me nervous, man. Keep the sheep talk on the DL, OK?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Uncool.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, when a woman does something that signals “I like you”,   it is VITALLY important that you:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Know how to recognize it&lt;br /&gt;2) DON'T do what MOST guys do&lt;br /&gt;3) DO the right thing, and AMPLIFY it&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So how can you tell if a woman is doing something that says “I like you”?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, it's VERY important to remember that women are far more “subtle” than men (most of the time, that is).&lt;br /&gt;If a man is interested in a woman, you can see it all over his face.&lt;br /&gt;It's usually very obvious.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But women are different.&lt;br /&gt;Women do SMALL things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A little touch. A sly smile. Sometimes a comment like “You're so cute” (as in your example above).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But then IT'S GONE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Women always seem to act like they're not quite sure.&lt;br /&gt;They don't send consistent signals that most men can “read”.&lt;br /&gt;And when they DO send signals that are easy to see, most guys respond in a way that makes those signals stop...which makes things even MORE confusing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again, women aren't as CONSISTENT as men.&lt;br /&gt;A woman can seem like she's interested one minute, then stand-offish the next.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So rule #1 is:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;JUST BECAUSE SHE'S DOING SOMETHING THAT SAYS “I LIKE YOU”,&lt;br /&gt;DON'T THINK THAT IT MEANS “I LIKE YOU NO MATTER WHAT”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Much better to interpret subtle “I like you” cues as “I like you for a second, but if you start acting like a Wuss Bag or Dumb Ass, it will all be over in an instant”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately for most guys, they take “I like you” signals to mean “You've won my approval, now you can do whatever you want”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And what do they do? Of course...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They turn into dorks, say or do a few stupid things, and destroy it all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, how many times I've watched guys (myself included) screw up perfectly good situations because they just didn't get this concept.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me give you an example......&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's say that you're out with a woman, and you've been teasing her, and she smiles and says “I like you”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A typical “male” response is for a guy to think to himself “OK, I'm in... she digs me” and to get that rush in the head and chest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next thing you know, he's acting different.&lt;br /&gt;He's talking about different things.&lt;br /&gt;He's giving compliments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next thing you know he is acting different.&lt;br /&gt;And what's the woman thinking while this is all going on? Of course...she's thinking “Uh oh, his cool, calm, interesting personality was just a cover for the secret inner-Wuss that was hiding out, waiting for a little bit of approval from me...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;AHHHHHH!”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Women KNOW that they're in control of the situation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or at least MOST of the time they are... and they THINK that they are even during the&lt;br /&gt;times when they're not.&lt;br /&gt;They're constantly using different kinds of communication to test and “feel out” the situation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember, MOST of the time when you're saying something that you think is nice, charming, and original, it's something that a woman has heard about 47 times that week from other guys.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Us guys act VERY predictably most of the time.&lt;br /&gt;And women know how to tell if you're just another loser who's pretending to be cool... who will turn into an average Wuss at the first sign of attraction from a cute woman.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think about what I just said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is hard for a lot of guys to swallow... but it's the reality of the situation.&lt;br /&gt;There's something that women call “Sexual Tension”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's also known as “Chemistry” or “Attraction” as well.&lt;br /&gt;But only WOMEN know it this way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you tease a woman, make her laugh, play hard to get with her, act unpredictably, etc. in the right way, you will create this tension.&lt;br /&gt;This is what usually leads to a woman saying something like“You're cute” or “I like you”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's the TENSION that makes her FEEL it and SAY it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THE TENSION!&lt;br /&gt;In these very special moments, you need to turn the tension UP. Dial it up. AMPLIFY it.&lt;br /&gt;Don't diffuse it all by saying “You're cute yourself” or “I like you, too”. Or by smiling like a jackass wussy dork who has just seen his first rainbow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This kind of thing RELEASES the tension, and it usually takes that wonderful electric attraction feeling that the woman is feeling and INSTANTLY kills it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does this make logical sense?&lt;br /&gt;Hell no.&lt;br /&gt;But it's what happens.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;OK, so let's talk about the RIGHT way to handle this type of situation.&lt;br /&gt;Remember when I said that it's the TENSION that makes a woman feel the feelings and make the comments?&lt;br /&gt;And that you need to AMPLIFY it when you're getting a positive response?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once upon a time, there was a scene in a movie that illustrated this concept PERFECTLY.&lt;br /&gt;In fact, it might be the all-time greatest example of this principle that has ever been recorded on film.&lt;br /&gt;Remember the end of “The Empire Strikes Back” when they were about to put Han Solo into the deep freeze?&lt;br /&gt;Remember when Leia said “I love you”...?&lt;br /&gt;Remember what Han said?&lt;br /&gt;Right, he said... “I know”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perfect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All of the sexual tension that built up in Star Wars and Empire culminated in Leia confessing her love.&lt;br /&gt;And Han says “I know”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Awesome!&lt;br /&gt;Imagine being Leia. What could be going through her mind at this point?&lt;br /&gt;An answer like this isn't easy to understand. It has all kinds of implications.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's confusing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It says “I know you love me, because it's been obvious for a longtime...”. But it doesn't let HER know how he feels exactly. It requires consideration. It dials up the tension. It's&lt;br /&gt;amazing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, I read that when they were filming that scene Han was supposed to answer “I love you too”, but the director didn't like it. They tried all kinds of things, and in the&lt;br /&gt;end Harrison Ford made up that line on the spot in one of the takes... and they kept it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, one of the BIG reasons why the newer movies in the Star Wars series suck is because there is no character like Han... think about it. It's all boring, predictable stuff. There's no sexy, arrogant, funny, wildcard personality messing things up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like I pointed out after I saw “Attack Of The Clones”, Anakin had to kill an ENTIRE VILLAGE of Sand People just to convince Princess A. that he wasn't a complete and total Wuss.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Would have been so much easier and more entertaining if he would have just had a&lt;br /&gt;PERSONALITY.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whatever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now where was I...?&lt;br /&gt;Oh, yea... amplifying the sexual tension...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're out with a woman, and you tease her because she's wearing four inch heels by saying “What's the deal, are you four feet tall without those one?”, and she opens her mouth with the classic “Oh no you didn't” look (smiling of course, with that surprised smile)... and you dial it up to the next level with “Oh, I'm sorry...Four foot three?”... and she hits you on the arm......and then she stops, puts her hand on your arm, and&lt;br /&gt;says “You know, you're funny”......what do you do?&lt;br /&gt;YOU SAY “YEA, I KNOW” - in a serious tone.&lt;br /&gt;Or “Don't try to use compliments to make me like you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It won't work. Go buy me a drink or something... I prefer gifts and money.”&lt;br /&gt;Or look down at her hand on your arm, lean back slightly, turn your&lt;br /&gt;head, and put your eyebrows together as if to say&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Just WHAT do you think you're doing touching me?!”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TURN IT UP, my friend!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You TURN UP the tension.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;AMPLIFY it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep it going.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you keep amplifying the tension and attraction at each of these wonderful moments, good things will happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good stuff.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;OK, I have a question.&lt;br /&gt;Want more killer ideas like this one?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What if I told you that there was a place you could go and download an eBook that contained literally DOZENS and DOZENS of great ideas like this one?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, there is. Of course, it's my eBook “&lt;a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2860931-10745526"&gt;Double YourDating&lt;/a&gt;”. Inside, you'll learn about all of my personal favorite techniques for dealing with all kinds of situations with women.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This might sound a little strange, but I actually read my own book to brush up on concepts, and remind myself of how to handle different situations. It took me a few years to learn, test, refine, and organize all of the awesome techniques that are included, and you'll understand why I speak so highly of it when you go and get a copy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's here... you can download it and be reading it in a few minutes.&lt;br /&gt;And while your at it, be sure to sign up for my free newsletter for more great tips:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-2860931-10745531"&gt;• Free Dating Tips Newsletter And Download eBook •&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;David DeAngelo is the author of........ “Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should&lt;br /&gt;Know About How To Be Successful With Women”, and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.addyoursitefreesubmit.com/add_new_site/468.html"&gt;&lt;img alt="Add Your Site For Free Today!" border="0" src="http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd107/dorothylaf/addyoursitebanner2.gif" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://feeds.feedburner.com/DatingOnline&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DatingOnline/~4/8eCACBZuWvM" height="1" width="1" alt=""/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/feeds/2436106373716255641/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/2009/09/guysdating-tips-fo-you.html#comment-form" title="15 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6180332730366085395/posts/default/2436106373716255641" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6180332730366085395/posts/default/2436106373716255641" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DatingOnline/~3/8eCACBZuWvM/guysdating-tips-fo-you.html" title="Dating Tips for the Guys" /><author><name>Dorothy L says hi</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/111639408238971330640</uri><email>[email protected]</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="32" src="//lh5.googleusercontent.com/--MhsKibp8sc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/MZI4ScmC5Dw/s512-c/photo.jpg" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ONfHzbrIcQo/SqA4fA_pXbI/AAAAAAAAAi4/69cuevhtgMA/s72-c/blackkiss.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>15</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://findyourman.blogspot.com/2009/09/guysdating-tips-fo-you.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6180332730366085395.post-7143452136213316952</id><published>2009-08-19T06:27:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-10-28T16:48:07.860-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="connection" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="love" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="online" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="online dating" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="relationships" /><title type="text">Online Dating...Tips!</title><content type="html">&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ONfHzbrIcQo/SowCA_G329I/AAAAAAAAAio/iZ43DIxZU70/s1600-h/onlinedatingtips.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5371670671509674962" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ONfHzbrIcQo/SowCA_G329I/AAAAAAAAAio/iZ43DIxZU70/s400/onlinedatingtips.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 225px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 300px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What Online Dating ISN’T…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When people think of the term “online dating”… many imagine getting on a computer, browsing profiles, and exchanging emails with the opposite sex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want you to do me a favor, and wipe this image from your mind RIGHT NOW.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want you to STOP thinking of online dating as sitting in front of a computer talking to men all day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That is NOT what this is all about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online dating is simply a great tool for finding a great man… then meeting him in person and sharing a great relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is NOT about actually “dating online”… sitting on a computer for hours… “cyber sex” or making “pen pals”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No way. What woman in her right mind wants to waste more time with a man they don’t even really know?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online dating is simply a great way to meet someone who is right for you. And guess what else? You aren’t the only one who realizes this…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why Thousands Of GREAT MEN Turn To Online Dating Sites… And How To Find Yours Among Them&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online dating used to have a bad reputation of being just a place where creeps and geeks went to get a date – male and female.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fortunately that is not the case. Not by a long shot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nearly every guy I know who women would consider to be a GREAT CATCH has some sort of presence online… whether it be on a dating site or social network.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Especially “savvy” men who are good communicators and like to connect with the world and new people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here’s something to think about- I’m guessing that nearly all of the great men you know right now are TAKEN. They’re dating or married to someone you know.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And those great guys who aren’t in a serious relationship… guess what they’re doing?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name='more'&gt;&lt;/a&gt; They’re online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The point is… the kind of men who are looking for love online are often professional, smart, single guys who just aren’t interested in the “bar scene” as a place to meet women, but who ARE interested in finding the right partner to their share their interests and passions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The kind of man you might find online may be the attractive divorced neighbor across the street. The one you admiringly glimpse at when he’s mowing his lawn, who would love to find a woman just like you to share his life with…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or it can be the shy, sensitive guy who loves all the same things you like, but whose path you’d never cross in “real life” because of the realities of our distracted, busy world and the fact that we don’t often travel outside our own little “routines”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The bottom line is that a great man (the right kind of man for you) goes online for the same exact reason YOU do – to find someone to share a loving, connected relationship with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are many more men like this online that you might imagine. Real men who are looking for real women to connect with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why Some Women Have Amazing And FAST Success With Online Dating… And How YOU Can Do The Same&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No doubt you’ve heard stories of people who have met the love of their lives online. Or maybe you even personally know someone who’s had it happen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I recently read somewhere that 1 out of 8 couples married in the U.S. last year met online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 out of 8!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wild.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But at the same time, I also personally know a lot of women who attempted to use the web to meet someone special but had no luck whatsoever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some of these unlucky women never got any real responses from men… while others I know got a TON of attention, but not from the type of men they were looking for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And other women have told me about situations where they felt a strong connection with a guy when conversing online and by email and by phone. But when they met in person it just wasn’t “there”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The thing is… there are thousands of people online these days… millions in fact… which makes for pretty strong odds in favor of finding at least one person out there for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here’s the real question…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why is it that while thousands of women end up finding true love online…others don’t find anyone at all?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And why is it that many of the women who are successful often meet someone FAST… without spending hours on the computer… and without going on a bunch of dates that lead nowhere?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is it luck?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, I’m sure it is, for some. But that just couldn’t be the situation in all cases…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Could it also be that the women who ended up meeting their dream man online were doing something DIFFERENTLY… something that gave themselves an edge that allowed them to find, meet and get to know a great man… while at the same time avoid wasting time with the wrong ones?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s a question I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about… and now, after speaking with literally hundreds of different men and women who have found love online, I am excited to say the answer is YES.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes - there ARE things that women who successfully meet the right men online do differently… and YES, these things they do differently give them a huge advantage over other women.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And what’s really exciting is that these differences have NOTHING to do with...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Having above average looks… or needing to attract a man with your looks alone&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Wasting your time spending hours and hours talking to men online&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Having exceptional writing ability or being a big “self-promoter” to get a man’s interest&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These aren’t the things that get the right man’s interest and attention online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead, the things that allow a woman to jump online and meet a great man very quickly are things that ANY woman can do. But surprisingly, VERY FEW women are doing what works with men online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That’s why when you finally learn and know the correct strategies and techniques for identifying and attracting the right kind of man online, you will easily able to...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Invest just 10-20 minutes of your time putting up a profile, and get emails from 10 or more interesting, attractive men that same night&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Invest 1-2 hours a week whenever you feel like it, and be almost guaranteed to attract and meet at least several interesting and fun men who could turn out to be the one for you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Quickly “sift” through a large portion of all the single men in your city, state, or even across the world, and get a quick window into their life to identify the good from the bad… without ever having to deal with “creeps” and “weirdos”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Go from wondering IF there are any quality guys out there to deciding which one of the single, attractive, successful men you are getting to know you want to share your precious time and attention with&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Quickly let every man you come in contact with KNOW that you are rare and special… giving yourself all of the choosing power when it came to men, dating, and relationships… and having men practically LINING UP to “prove themselves” to you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Avoid the “small talk” and go directly to interacting with a man in a more personal but casual way where he will want to share more about his true self&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Instantly disqualify the wrong men who would waste your time before ever having to meet or go on a date with them&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Know more about a man before ever having to go out with him than many women find out about a man after months of dating... or even well into the relationship&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt; Easily go from getting in contact with a man, to seeing what he is interested in and ready for in his love life, to meeting with him, connecting with him, and developing a deep level of trust and understanding that paves the way for a loving, connected, secure relationship&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course the best part is that you can make all this happen on your own time, from your own home, whenever you feel like it in your busy life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’d like to show you what the tips, strategies and differences are that have helped other women quickly find the right man for them… and how YOU can begin using these simple tactics IMMEDIATELY to find the love you want today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How To Tell If A Guy Is The Type Of QUALITY Man You Are Looking For&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first key to finding love online is knowing how to identify WHICH of the hundreds of men you will come across are the quality guys… and which one of these quality guys is the right guy for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This breaks down into 3 very important steps…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Step #1) Figure Out If He Is A “Catch”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To meet the right man in the “real world”, you have to go out often, talk to lots of men, and hope to meet just one guy who doesn’t turn out to be a jerk, weirdo or a player… and then think on your toes in the moment to attract him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online dating is the OPPOSITE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It “freezes time” and slows the process down… so you have as much time as you need to find out exactly WHO you are talking to… what he’s all about… and whether or not he is the type of guy you are looking for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Out of the thousands of men who have profiles on dating sites and social networks, only about 1 in 100 is what you would call “quality”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the biggest problem is that ALL of them are pretending to be Mr. Right!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When a guy is filling out his profile, it’s very easy and tempting for him to add an inch or 2 to his height, drop a few pounds off his waist, and add a few dollars to his income.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s up to YOU to figure out whether you are talking to one of the “pretenders”… or to a guy who doesn’t feel the need to pretend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fortunately, there are some very obvious and easy-to-spot “warning signs” that – along with a few specific questions you can ask – will allow you to find out if you are talking to a dud or stud within minutes of looking at his profile… or within just one or two email exchanges.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you’re serious about meeting Mr. Right quickly, it’s crucial that you learn what these warning signs and questions are… so you don’t waste a single minute of the time you could be spending talking to the right man for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you don’t learn how to spot the warning signs in a man… and the true signs of the right man… you’ll end up wasting a TON of time corresponding with men who will turn out to be everything but what you are looking for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Very few men going to flat out TELL YOU that they don’t have their act together, are carrying major “baggage”, or that they’re just looking for a quick fling… so you have to know how to pick the winners.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Step #2) Spot Whether Or Not He Is Looking For The Same Thing You Are&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In order to avoid wasting your time talking to a guy who isn’t right for you, it’s crucial that you find out where he is at and if he is looking for the same type of relationship you are from the start… so you know when to take something seriously, and when to move on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I’m sure you know by now… we men aren’t very vocal when it comes to sharing our feelings and what we want.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In fact, a lot of the time we haven’t even thought too much about what we’re looking for in terms of a relationship. We’re just going along with what feels right and taking it from there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which means… a great guy who is looking for a woman to settle down with is highly unlikely to mention that he’s looking for a “committed relationship” in his profile. It’s very rare to see a guy saying things like, “I want to find my soul mate”, or “I am looking to settle down”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are 3 reasons for this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. A man worries that if he puts these things in his profile he will look DESPERATE and NEEDY&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Many men just plain don’t talk that way&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Many men just plain don’t know what they want until they find and experience it&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fortunately, there are subtle clues a guy gives when he is looking for something more serious and substantial that are sort of like a man’s version of, “I want to settle down”… and it’s important that you know what they are, and how to spot them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not all of the men you come across online will be looking for the same things you are. Some might just be looking for a fling or something more “casual”… and yes, some may already be in a relationship and are looking to stray.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want to show you how to tell if a man you are interested in is looking for the same thing you are without any guesswork… and with 100% accuracy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Step #3) Build Attraction And Take Things To The “Real World” FAST&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you or someone you know ever talked to a man online and gotten REALLY excited about meeting him in person… only to discover that when you did meet he was a little bit “off”… or perhaps even totally different than he described?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The beauty of meeting men online is that if you know what to look for and the right questions to ask, you can literally find out more about a man in 5 minutes of your time than most women find out in weeks, months, or even YEARS of dating.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But it’s often hard to spot whether or not you will have that “chemistry” when you finally do meet in person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don’t need to tell you that wasting time talking to someone who ends up awkward in person, or is not your physical type, REALLY STINKS.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fortunately, there are some great tactics you can use to get a better idea of what someone is going to be like when you meet… and whether or not you will “feel it”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the fact of the matter is that no matter how good you get at “reading” a profile or knowing what questions to ask a man, chemistry is chemistry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are people you will like over email and phone that you just won’t feel it with in person. It’s part of the game.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So how do you handle this and make it work in your favor, instead of having it be a danger and a liability for you in “dating” online?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The best way to handle this is to first learn how to SCREEN men up front to make sure they are a fit and have the qualities you are looking for… and then to learn how to get the interest of the right man so he’s wanting to meet up with you and be open and honest with you right away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That way you can avoid wasting your time emailing or chatting on the phone with a guy who isn’t going to work out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you minimize the time you spend with a man BEFORE you meet, and you can get to the truth early on… you will be less likely to end up on “bad dates” and get frustrated over something that was never meant to be in the first place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember, the web is a place to meet men and screen them BEFORE you meet them in person. And it’s important to do both quickly in order to have the highest chance of success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The best part is, doing this online can be as easy as simply writing something once that will both screen the wrong men and ATTRACT the right man at the same time… and do all this FOR YOU (in your profile) while you’re not even online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You could be out enjoying your life while the right man for you is finding out about you and learning about you online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What Every Woman Should Know About What Attracts The RIGHT MAN Online… And What Instantly Turns Him Off&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you had 10 seconds in front of a great guy who was single and attractive and you wanted to get his interest and attention, what would you say?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What if you only had 20 words to do this? What would you write?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, when it comes to meeting and attracting a great guy online… this is exactly where most women get stuck.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me be very direct here…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The single most important “skill” you can have for meeting a man and getting the right kind of situation started is knowing how to make a man feel ATTRACTED to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve been talking about the importance of ATTRACTION, and how it really works, for years and years now… and I get that it can be frustrating enough just to figure out how to get a man’s attention and interest when you meet him IN PERSON.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That’s why for lots of women, trying to do the guess work of figuring out how to ATTRACT the right kind of man ONLINE, when it seems like all you have is a picture, a profile, and email to work with… honestly turns lots of women off.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To them, online dating seems like a whole other world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And in a way it is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But here’s the thing…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The problem that keeps most women from being able to quickly meet and attract a great guy online has nothing to do with “online dating”. It’s that most women still, at a deeper level, don’t get HOW ATTRACTION WORKS FOR A MAN.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The biggest mistake I see women making when it comes to online dating isn’t some “technique” - it’s that most women STILL don’t get how to create a strong level of attraction with each interaction they have with a man.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead of LEADING WITH ATTRACTION and using what works online with men, too many let their own “stuff” get in the way of the experience they could create with a man. And it’s this “stuff” that most women accidentally communicate to men that turns out to be exactly what TURNS A MAN OFF and is 100% UNATTRACTIVE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To give you some examples of what I’m talking about here, this kind of “stuff” that women do online usually includes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Talking or writing about what you’re WORRIED and ANXIOUS about dating, meeting men, and how things are going to go for you. And doing this from very first moment a man comes into contact with you and your profile&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Focusing on what you DON’T WANT and writing about it so it’s the first thing a man sees in your profile (suggests “baggage”)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Rehashing old relationships and past pains and frustrations with men in your past (subtly tells a man you’re emotionally insecure and off-balance, and that you blame men for this)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Communicating about the kind of relationship you’re looking for in a way that makes you appear “needy” or “clingy”… to where a man will thinks that just talking to you or meeting you will be like landing on a sticky spider web from which he won’t be able to escape. (Yes – men pick up subtle things from women in the way they talk about relationships that they judge to mean whether she’s “easy-going” or terribly needy in a relationship)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And those are just a few of the most common ways that women accidentally communicate the wrong “stuff” and make men lose interest in them before the real conversation ever has a chance to get started.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here’s something fascinating you should know…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve found that over 60% of women are so busy in their minds with this negative “stuff” about what they DON’T WANT, what’s wrong with other men, bad past relationships, or what they’re AFRAID OF that they end up convincing most of the good men online that they’re not the kind of woman who is healthy and “relationship material” – even if they are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And all it takes to have the right man get the wrong idea about you is for you to say just few of the wrong words that are UNIVERSALLY UNATTRACTIVE to a man.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The point is… there’s something I want you to consider very carefully if you’re looking for the right man in your life and you’ve thought about online dating (or even tried it without success in the past)…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online dating is a simple skill that’s easy to learn if you know how to communicate the RIGHT way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For most women, instead of learning how to communicate and use online dating and the Internet to their advantage… too many women let the idea of “online dating” make them nervous, scared, or feel awkward. And when their own “stuff” accidentally comes out, men perceive them as either negative, unhealthy… or just plain UNATTRACTIVE and UNINTERESTING.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you stopped to think about what the right man is actually thinking and feeling as he reads the profiles of most of the other women online who are looking for “the one”?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think about it for a second…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As you probably already know, there’s a kind of magic “connecting power” to the Internet. And you have the opportunity at any moment to plug into that power and use it to your advantage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the amazing connecting power of the Internet and online dating can just as easily work against you if you don’t know how to use it… or you don’t know how to make a man FEEL ATTRACTION for you when you and he finally connect online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words… if you’re communicating the wrong things online… then the power of the Internet and email will not only work against you – but it will MAGNIFY the mistakes you’re making and what you’re saying and doing wrong. (If you’re curious WHY this is, it has to do with the fact that everything we communicate online has no real and personal CONTEXT – but I can show you how to easily deal with this and actually use it to stand out to a man as the right kind of attractive woman who “gets it”)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So now that you’re a little bit more “in the know”, let me share with you some quick tips and insights about how you can more easily attract the right man online…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you think about it, there are several huge ADVANTAGES you can enjoy online when you meet a man that you don’t get when you first meet a man in person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The most important ADVANTAGES you have online with men are:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. You have UNLIMITED TIME to create a snapshot of your “best self” in your personal profile. (Imagine if you spent even half as much time preparing the way you “look” online, as you do getting ready to go out on a date)&lt;br /&gt;2.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Your picture can speak a thousand words (Good or Bad) and you are completely in control of what you’re going to have it say about you (This is an opportunity for “instant attraction” or chemistry in a man’s visually oriented mind)&lt;br /&gt;4.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Online dating allows you and a man to quickly skip past the “niceties” of chatting and going out a few times before you even talk about what you’re really looking for – and instead lets you START with “Here’s what I want… and here’s what I’m looking for.” But this only works for you if you know how to use this to your advantage and not make it work against you like it does for so many other women online.&lt;br /&gt;6.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Every man online is giving you tons of tips and insights into who they are, and how to communicate with them in a way that will make them see you as the right kind of woman for them. But you have to know HOW to read their profiles and emails to fully understand all the great information they are giving you…without their even knowing it.&lt;br /&gt;8.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, here’s the real question…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How could you put all these advantages to work for you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I’ve learned is that one of the biggest problems women have is simply GETTING STARTED with the basics in online dating and attracting the right man. See… lots of women don’t believe they know how to write up a great profile about themselves, who they are, and what they want.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And guess what?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They’re right!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most women don’t do a great job at writing a profile that would actually ATTRACT the RIGHT MAN.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There aren’t many of us who like writing about how great we are. Let alone simply talking about it to others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s really an awkward proposition. Especially when it comes to men, dating, and relationships and you’ve never even met the man who’s reading all about you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But that’s where I can really help you make things simple and allow you to stand out from all the other women out there online looking for a real relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this program I’ve put together specifically for online dating, I make creating your own PERSONAL BEST PROFILE fast, simple, and fool-proof. And best of all I show you how to do it in a way that makes your profile completely “real” and “authentic” about who YOU really are. That way it jumps out and interests the kind of man who’s right for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But here’s what’s really strange and bizarre about how most women write their online profile-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What you say about yourself might be honest and real… but it doesn’t mean that you’ll catch the attention of the right man for you. Even when he’s looking right at you and your profile!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That’s why I’ve taken the time to find a collection of real-world profiles and emails for you so you can learn from specific examples of what does and doesn’t work with men online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In case you didn’t know… if you include just a few of the wrong words or ideas in your profile, when a great guy goes to read what you have to say after being attracted by your picture… he will become INSTANTLY TURNED OFF by you and never ever consider you again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And the worst part… many things that most women are naturally inclined to say and write about themselves are the very things that end up turning off the right man.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, most women write what THEY would want to hear and read about a good potential partner online. But this has NOTHING to do with what YOUR RIGHT MAN wants and needs to hear from you as a woman.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’m going to show you how to instantly avoid the big No-No’s with men that can start from the first word of your profile… including all the common things men instantly see and recognize about you from your profile and your photos that will to make him run… even if you could have been a great match for him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But most importantly, I want to show you what to do instead to grab a great guy’s attention from the start… and help him know INSTANTLY that YOU are the great catch he’s been looking for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally… A Short-Cut To Meeting The Right Man (Or Men) Online And Getting The Right Relationship Started… Without The Hassle Of The “Singles Scene”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve just put the finishing touches on a brand new program called “Finding Love Online”… and the women who I’ve already shared this program with are quickly finding exactly who and what they’ve been wanting for years. And they’re doing it in a way that many frankly didn’t think would ever work for them – by meeting the right man ONLINE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you’re looking to meet the right man, or a small handful of great men to have fun with and choose from, then I can’t wait to finally share my new program with you so you can make finding who and what you want easier than you ever thought possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this program, I’m going to show you the real reasons why so many women like you fail in online dating and end up on terrible dates that waste their time and go nowhere. And why after spending weeks or months of online “dating”, most women end up feeling hopeless and worse than they did before they started meeting men online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I get how “cold” and strange online dating and meeting a man online can seem… and how for so many women online dating feels strange or “wrong”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But just like in the “real world” when you’re walking down the street… if you don’t know how to read and identify the kind of people you want to associate with and connect to… and you don’t know how to actually communicate with them in person, then you’re going to feel pretty uncomfortable and alone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve uncovered the subtle unspoken language of meeting and communicating online… and show you how to break through the IMPERSONAL DISTANCE that keeps great women and great men apart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ve also spent all kinds of time learning about why many women think online dating can be “dangerous” or “scary” and have created a fail-safe way to identify, avoid, and screen out all the men who are either potential liars who may be misrepresenting themselves or are just dangerous time-wasters online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you know what you’re doing online, it becomes simple to have men tell you up front who they REALLY ARE and what they’re really after. And do it first thing – in a way a man never would in person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lots of women aren’t great at identifying the good guys from the bad. And this problem is only magnified if you don’t know what you’re doing and how to communicate with a man online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ll show you the specific questions to ask that will quickly keep the wrong men from wasting your time… and get only the right men to willingly open up and identify themselves without the hassle of trying to guess what their “deal” is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It’s fascinating… but after years of looking at how men and women communicate and interact, I’ve learned that men can actually be MORE HONEST and UP FRONT with women online then they are in person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But this is true only if you know the subtle tips about not only what to ask, but HOW to ask it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The truth is, men are dying to meet women they feel they can be honest and “themselves” with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately they have a hard time getting there with most women, because most women don’t know how to help the process along with a small nudge in the right direction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you’ve digested all the learning, tips and insights in this program, it’s going to be like a light finally went on in your head.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You’re going to know exactly how to find and connect with one or more great men… and what to do from first contact, to emailing… to chat… to talking on the phone… to meeting up and going on a great date. And you’re going to have an easy to follow system that will guarantee the right man grows more attracted to you at each step and will be begging for your time and attention as you grow closer over email and in person.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So if all this was simple and easy to learn and use, and brought almost instant new RESULTS… then what reason do you have to NOT get started creating a better love life for yourself right now?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are interested in an easy and fun way to quickly meet a great guy, with little effort on your part… then you don’t have many reasons at all to not at least check this out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are just a few of the powerful secrets you’ll learn in this exciting program:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* What certain words and phrases mean in HIS profile (I’ll show you the exact words and phrases a man uses when he is looking for something “real”… and how to spot if he is a GREAT CATCH in seconds)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The 4 REVEALING QUESTIONS to ask any man to get him to identify who he really is, if he’s seeing anyone else, his thoughts on dating and whether or not his social style is compatible with yours… BEFORE you meet in person&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* How to write your online profile in an EASY, STEP-BY-STEP way that will not only capture the best of you, but will “spark” the attention of the RIGHT man and get him to eagerly respond to your profile&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The DEADLY MISTAKE most women make when emailing a man for the first time that ruins your chances with him no matter how compatible the two of you are (If you don’t know what this mistake is there is a good chance you are making it now… listen up!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* How to go from the initial online contact with a man to talking on the phone and meeting in person SAFELY (I’ll not only show you how to avoid the “crazies”, but also the “clingy’s” that will email you or call you 10 times a day!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* A little-known tip to get MORE RESPONSES than 99% of other women online that takes literally minutes a day and almost no special work or effort on your part… yet instantly sets you apart from the sea of other women online&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The 4 instant “turn-offs” that make a man run when you first meet him… and what to do instead to create attraction EFFORTLESSLY in a way that is playful, easy and fun&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* How to talk by email or phone in a way that allows you to identify his TRUE qualities quickly, good and bad. (This is THE KEY to making 100% SURE that you don’t waste your time with a man who might seem great but will turn out wrong for you)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* 5 essential secrets you must know about how a man thinks and feels if you want to build a real connection with him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* 6 MAJOR PITFALLS that can cause a woman who is a great catch in “real life” to get discouraged with online dating because they cause her to attract only the wrong kinds of men!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* How to SPEAK THE LANGUAGE of online dating – Exactly what to say in an email, online chat or profile to communicate that YOU are his best possible choice (I’ll give you TONS of real-world examples and phrases you can literally cut and paste if you want to… for not only grabbing his attention but finding out if HE is the best choice for you)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The hidden reason why it’s so easy to get emotionally “addicted” to a man online, only to have it backfire when you meet him in person (I’ll show you how to “size him up” and find out as much as you possibly can about whether or not the “chemistry” will be there when you meet)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The top common WORDS and PHRASES in your profile that will instantly turn a man off… even if he could have been a perfect match for you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The 6 levels of communication you need to have with a man and how to smoothly navigate through each one (I’ll show you how to move quickly and SAFELY from initial contact with an attractive and interesting man online to a great first date and beyond…)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The CRITICAL tip that is KEY to a man being honest with you, so you can weed out creeps and jerks who might hurt you or waste your precious time (You MUST do this BEFORE you go on your first date)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The 5 things to avoid writing in your first few e-mails to a man(These are INTEREST-KILLERS that will turn almost every quality man OFF from further contact with you)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Real-life examples of online profiles that work, that flop, and everything in between. You’ll get to see for yourself how certain common words and phrases can spell disaster for getting responses…and a step-by-step workshop to turn your “true self” into a HOT profile that is sure to get Mr. Right’s attention&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Attractors and Shiny Objects: 7 things that instantly engages a man’s attention and interest in responding to your profile…use any combination of these and you’re practically GUARANTEED to intrigue the right man&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* An attractive man gets TONS of emails, winks and responses from women who indicate that they share his thoughts and feelings. Learn how to MAKE AN IMPACT and be a “breath of fresh air” to a man by using this surprising, 4-WORD PHRASE in your first email&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The right way to phrase your profiles and emails so the man doesn’t just contact you, but will actually want to get to know you AFTER you email him…in other words, the most effective way of not just GETTING his interest, but KEEPING his interest way beyond a first email exchange.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The exact words and phrases to use in your profile that SCARE AWAY men who aren’t good enough for you!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The simple sentence to put in your profile that will tell a man you’re not looking for just a “casual fling”… WITHOUT making you appear needy and desperate for a relationship&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The 3 IMPORTANT IDEAS to communicate in your correspondence that will be totally irresistible to a man… so that he will be excited and anxious about meeting you and getting to know you better&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* The MAGICAL words and ideas that attract the right man for love and a relationship (When you start using these around a man, whether online or in person, he will feel absolutely CHARMED by you… and will naturally feel passionate about pursuing a relationship with you)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* How to spot an EXTRAORDINARY man online… the 3 qualities that every woman should look for in order to find that one, special, mature man… and the 5 qualities that man is searching for in a woman that you MUST HAVE in order to get his attention&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* PRACTICAL tips on what to bring, what to say, where to go and what to do (and NOT do) on a first date with a man you met online…so that you eliminate “nasty surprises” and instead feel confident and safe&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* Tips on a MAN’S PERSPECTIVE on dating from a cyber-dating expert who writes for one of the top online dating sites!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;* And much, much more... &lt;a href="http://www.catchhimandkeephim.com/InterviewSeries/?d=1"&gt;click&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.addyoursitefreesubmit.com/add_new_site/468.html"&gt;&lt;img alt="Add Your Site For Free Today!" border="0" src="http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd107/dorothylaf/addyoursitebanner2.gif" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DatingOnline/~4/wpFkq_6sPpk" height="1" width="1" alt=""/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/feeds/7143452136213316952/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://findyourman.blogspot.com/2009/08/online-datingtips.html#comment-form" title="8 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6180332730366085395/posts/default/7143452136213316952" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6180332730366085395/posts/default/7143452136213316952" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DatingOnline/~3/wpFkq_6sPpk/online-datingtips.html" title="Online Dating...Tips!" /><author><name>Dorothy L says hi</name><uri>https://plus.google.com/111639408238971330640</uri><email>[email protected]</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="32" src="//lh5.googleusercontent.com/--MhsKibp8sc/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/MZI4ScmC5Dw/s512-c/photo.jpg" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ONfHzbrIcQo/SowCA_G329I/AAAAAAAAAio/iZ43DIxZU70/s72-c/onlinedatingtips.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>8</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://findyourman.blogspot.com/2009/08/online-datingtips.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6180332730366085395.post-3811131368821924568</id><published>2009-08-19T05:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-19T06:01:04.703-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="cheater" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="guys" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="love" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="relationships" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="trust" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="women" /><title type="text">Good Guys...Bad Guys!</title><content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ONfHzbrIcQo/Sov2KTlli2I/AAAAAAAAAig/C-R-sKgHpvI/s1600-h/nic+Guy+Gone+Bad.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; 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display: block; height: 334px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 296px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once upon a time, there was a woman who was very attracted to a particular man.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At first, he was just another attractive man...but the more she got to know him, the more she began to feel attracted to him... and the more time she spent with him, the more that attraction grew into a deep emotional attachment and affection for him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But there was one problem. As her emotional attachment grew stronger and stronger, she also grew more and more insecure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because she couldn't tell whether or not he felt the same way towards her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes he would talk to her and say things that led her to believe that they shared a special connection, but nothing ever progressed past the “friendship” stage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There was an occasional glance, an occasional email or call from him... and a few times, he even opened up about something personal or emotional, and invited her “inside” for a little while.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But something was wrong with the picture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He just wasn't acting like a man who was “falling in love”. He was acting like a friend, but at times, even more distant than a friend would be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And things seemed to be hot and cold. Sometimes he would look at her and talk to her, and sometimes he would ignore her and close himself off.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The insecurity that she felt from all this, became a spiral that amplified itself... and the more insecure she became, the more afraid she grew of “screwing things up” or “scaring him off”, by starting conversations or asking him if he was interested in&lt;br /&gt;her and why he didn't ask her out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Plus, the more insecure she became, the less time he seemed to want to spend with her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After spending days and nights obsessing over this guy, the woman finally arrived at the conclusion that if he only knew how SHE FELT, that he would feel the same way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So she made a bold move.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She TOLD HIM how she felt.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She confessed her feelings and let him know that she wanted to be with him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He responded by flirting with her and he spent some time alone with her, and they even kissed and held each other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But soon after, he quickly withdrew, didn't call her and wasn't really “available” to her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This only confused the woman more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She didn't know how to take it...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a name='more'&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did it mean that he really loved her too, but that he was afraid of something?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did it mean that he wasn't ready for a long-term relationship?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did it mean that he didn't love her, and that he was trying to give her a hint?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did it mean that she hadn't tried hard enough?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did it mean that she needed to put everything on the line and REALLY let him know how she felt?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She finally decided that she couldn't go on like this anymore... she had to be with him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She had to make sure that he knew just how much she wanted to be with him... so she took a big step, bought him a symbolic gift and wrote him a letter...again confessing her feelings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then, something unthinkable happened.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Either he didn't reply at all... (Ouch!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or he replied and she connected with him on an emotional and physical level for a brief time, but then he backed away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then she called him a couple of times, the following week before reaching him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He made an excuse about being very busy and said,&lt;br /&gt;“I'll try to give you a call soon, I have to go”...and hung up... but she never got a call back.&lt;br /&gt;Over the following months, the woman tried desperately to understand what went wrong... and what happened.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THE END...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That story is basically a MYTH.&lt;br /&gt;But I'm not talking about FICTION here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm talking about a story that rings true for lots of women.&lt;br /&gt;A story that is timeless.&lt;br /&gt;A story that resonates at a deep level, because you can IDENTIFY with it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And why does this particular story resonate for some women?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because lots of women have been there in one way or another... at one time or another... and many have been there OFTEN in their lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another thing that gives this particular story a lot of power, is the powerful negative emotions that it stirs... as a result of the powerful negative experiences that it brings back...&lt;br /&gt;Stories and situations like this one, really FASCINATE&lt;br /&gt;me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They fascinate me, because I see them as an opportunity to UNDERSTAND and SOLVE the puzzles that they represent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this particular situation, I think there is a solution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It lies in understanding a SECRET that lots of WOMEN DON'T GET.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That secret comes down to the reality that if a man isn't ATTRACTED to a woman, all of her attempts to confess her love, convince him to like her and court her, BACKFIRE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, they not only DON'T WORK; they actually make things WORSE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, the very things that a woman does to try to make a man LIKE HER, make him NOT like her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They make him run.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All of those great intentions and emotional dedication actually cause the woman feeling them, to do things that make the man go away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It sucks!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But it's a strangely common dynamic, that also takes place inside dating situations and new relationships without women (or men) really being aware of it, and understanding what's going on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I hope that by explaining the process of how this happens to you, that I'll help you avoid this painful situation in your own future...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And maybe you can start to understand what's going on a little better, if you think about what it's like when a man you're NOT attracted to, desperately wants your attention, affection and your time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you ever had a guy pursue you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As he's trying to get your attention, approval and affection, all of his pleading and effort just seems to bug you more and make you want to get away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even if all he's doing, is telling you great things about yourself and how he feels about you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Strange and interesting...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Choices And The Paradox Of Attraction&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm always fascinated by the idea that we humans don't always understand the message that we're communicating to others...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So often we think that because we WANT to communicate a message, that others are going to NATURALLY understand what we're trying to say.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you ever seen a woman who dresses over-the-top sexy and wears way to much make-up?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you ever thought to yourself, “I don't think that her appearance is communicating the message to men that she thinks it is”...?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yeah, I have too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, here's the deal:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you do something to “let a man know how you feel”.. but he isn't open to the situation at that time, or he isn't ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to backfire.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's going to trigger a feeling for the man, that I like to call the “Instant Ewww”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The “Instant Ewww” is just as powerful as the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once a man feels it, YOU'RE DONE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's over.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's like hammering a RAILROAD SPIKE into the coffin.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once a man feels the “Instant Ewww”, he'll start behaving differently.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In short, he'll back off or even disappear.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So where did I get the concept of the “Instant&lt;br /&gt;Ewww”?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got it from watching WOMEN.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have actually heard SEVERAL women use the word “Ewww”, when describing how they felt about a guy that was “confessing his love”... and of course, these were guys that weren't loved in return by the woman.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Men do the same kind of thing with a woman they're not attracted to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Often they try to be “nice” about it. They let the attention pump up their ego a bit, and then they create what is often an unconscious barrier in their mind, that closes off communication or contact with her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And the resulting vacuum sound you hear, is what's happening as any ATTRACTION and interest he might have felt, evaporates.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what causes the “Instant Ewww”?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And why would a man feel it, towards a woman who was trying to be nice... a woman who was giving him attention, a gift or telling him how she feels?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Because if you think about it from HIS perspective, you'll realize that the moment you do something to “confess”, you've created a TURNING POINT in the relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Up until that point, you were harmless.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I mean, men know when they are getting some “special attention” from a woman.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And they usually know it from the beginning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But now that you've started pursuing him and talking about how you feel, you've created a NEGATIVE TENSION that can be VERY uncomfortable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You've triggered an emotion that can actually repel a man and make him even more detached from his emotions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's the thing...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can't “make a man like you” or “change how he feels about you”, by doing nice things for him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Doing “nice” things for a man who isn't attracted to you, HURTS you. It backfires. Worse, it creates the “Instant Ewww” feeling, that makes it so he'll perhaps NEVER like you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Men are the worst at this, by the way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They make this mistake over and over again in life, because they're doing what MAKES SENSE to them. They're doing it, because they don't have an understanding of ATTRACTION.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I mean, if you have a friend and you like them, and you want to make them like you more... and you do some nice things for them, they will probably like you more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other hand...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have a man that you “like” in a romantic way, and he doesn't “feel it” for you, and you do something nice for him, because you want HIM to like you more, it will BACKFIRE... and he will not only NOT like you more, but he will most likely distance&lt;br /&gt;himself from you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Women think that they need to communicate verbally when they like a man... as if that's part of the necessary process of getting a guy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In their minds, it goes like this:&lt;br /&gt;Like him&amp;gt;Tell him you like him&amp;gt;He likes you&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, remember... if you follow this pattern, yourself, with men who aren't already ATTRACTED to you, then it's going to BACKFIRE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If he's not into you, then it goes like THIS:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He thinks of you as a friend&amp;gt;You tell him you like him&amp;gt;He gets the “Instant Ewwws” and withdraws...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THE ANSWER&lt;br /&gt;There are really TWO answers to this problem.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first answer, is what to do if you're in a situation where you like a particular guy, but you don't know if he likes you back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;DON'T GET HEAVY WITH HIM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't buy him a big gift, do something nice to show him how much you think about him or write him a love letter...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't send him a note to his work that says, “From your secret admirer”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't call him several times, without hearing from him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And DON'T CONFESS YOUR LOVE for him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to know how he feels about you, do something to ATTRACT HIM and see how he reacts instead of telling him you love him and hearing the crickets chirp as you wait for his response.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a rule of thumb, don't get heavier than HIM.&lt;br /&gt;Use SIGNALS from him to find out how he feels...and if you don't know how to read and create those signals, then LEARN.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Asking a man if he's interested in you in a romantic way, or if you are “his type”, will actually DESTROY the chances that his attraction and interest in you will grow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Really.............&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The SECOND answer, is to not get into this particular situation in the FIRST PLACE. Avoid it entirely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And how does one do that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One does that by creating ATTRACTION from the beginning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One does that by understanding the dynamics of how and why men have the physical and emotional response of ATTRACTION triggered.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One does that by knowing what you're doing FROM THE BEGINNING.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And what's the best way to learn THAT skill?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I thought you'd never ask...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, I've written about attraction before and I'll write about it again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my eBook, I talk about some of the very best ways to learn how to make man feel ATTRACTION for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But above and beyond the meeting and attracting men “stuff”, I also talk about how attraction, communication, psychology and emotions all play into the longer term&lt;br /&gt;“stuff” around dating, and creating a solid foundation for a future relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my eBook, I go deep inside the mind of a man to tell you the secrets and truths that lots of women will never know about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The eBook is called “Catch Him And Keep Him”.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've spent several years now, studying the ways that women (and men) who are “naturals”, communicate using their words, voice tone and body language.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The way they integrate all these, makes them MAGNETIC to be around. And you probably know what I'm talking about, if you know any women who seem “lucky in love”. Where everything involving men seems to come easily and effortlessly to them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I'll tell you... it's not magic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You don't have to be gorgeous or young.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And you don't have to be LUCKY.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What you DO have to do is LEARN.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's a skill, and I honestly believe that ANY woman can learn it if she wants.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But you're not likely to figure it out by “trial and error”. 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